I would never want to work for someone who felt he/she had to threatened me to do my job…

My husband received an email from his supervisor the other day, in which the team was threatened with 100% travel if they didn’t comply with their work over the holidays.

Immediately, it felt icky to me. I would never want to work for someone who felt he/she had to  threatened me to do my job.

But then I thought about this a bit more…

Where is my own life am I using fear (instead of love) as a motivator? 

If I’m real honest, I use it with my kids more than I want to admit. I threaten to take away electronics or fun things if they don’t comply to me. 🫣

As for myself, I often threaten myself for not meeting a goal or beat myself up for not working out. 

I truly believe you cannot change what you’re not aware of, and now that I’m aware of these things- it’s time for a change.